Friday, 7 August 2015

Keep Britain Breastfeeding 2015 - Round Up Day 7

The End of Breastfeeding

These are the posts from the Seventh day of the Keep Britain Breastfeeding 2015.  Each post will share a link to the next post so you can read them all.  Don't forget to enter the rafflecopters as you go.

Life With Baby Kicks - The Final Feed

Mum In A Nutshell - Moving On From Breastfeeding

Diary of an Unexpectant Mother - The One Where He Self Weaned

Sunshine Scribbles - The End Of Our Breastfeeding Journey

Milk Chic - Weaned....Just Like That!

Fit For Parenting - The End Of Our Breastfeeding Journey

Musings from A Northern Village - The End of our Breastfeeding Journey

Mummies Waiting - Cherishing that Last Feed

Adventures of a Novice Mum - When the Last Latch Comes - and discount on Lactation Cookies!

Odd Socks and Lollipops - The End of My Breastfeeding Journey

Milk and Mummy - Stopping Breastfeeding

My Thoughts On Things -The Finale

Just Motherhood - Extended Breastfeeding

A Baby On Board - Breastfeeding... Our Greatest Hits

Positive About Breastfeeding - End of Breastfeeding

Princess Poets Life Adventures - The End of My Breastfeeding Journey

Quite Frankly She Said - The Last Feed

Run Jump Scrap - The End of My Breastfeeding Journey

Dads Thoughts - Extended Breastfeeding

Renegade Feminist- Breastfeeding Aversion and More











Thursday, 6 August 2015

Keep Britain Breastfeeding 2015 - Day 6 Round-Up

The People Behind The Breastfeeder

These are the posts from the Sixth day of the Keep Britain Breastfeeding 2015.  Each post will share a link to the next post so you can read them all.  Don't forget to enter the rafflecopters as you go.



Life with Baby Kicks - My Husband is My Biggest Fan

Diary of an Unexpectant Mother -  Paying It Forward... Breastfeeding Support

Fit for Parenting - The People Behind the Breastfeeder

Musings From A Northern Village - The People Behind the Breastfeeder

My Mummy's World - The People Behind The Breastfeeder

Mummies Waiting - Being a SuperMum...Support Will Help Get You There

Monkey and Mouse Our Colourful Life - My Breastfeeding Cheerleaders

Adventures of a Novice Mum - My Husband and Breastfeeding

Odd Socks and Lollipops - My Breastfeeding Support Network

Milk and Mummy - My Breastfeeding Support Team

My Thoughts on Things - Positive about Breastfeeding...Backstage

Live Oxfordshire - Mum is the Loneliest Number, Why You Need Support

Run Jump Scrap - Thank You For Helping Me Breastfeed

A Baby On Board - Ten Tips For Breastfeeding Support

Mum Without Wheels - The People Behind the Breastfeeder

Dads Thoughts - The People Behind the Breastfeeder

Quite Frankly She Said - The People Behind the Breastfeeder

Lycra Widow - It Takes a Village to Raise a Baby

Positive About Breastfeeding - Breastfeeding Support

Breastfeeding in England - The People Behind the Breastfeeder











The People Behind The Breastfeeder

You never know where you will find your rock.  You can find support in a number of different places, some unexpectant.  I worked with a teen Mum in the States who breastfed under difficult circumstances.  Her family were openly against it and she found the strength and support to continue from her Grandfather.  I received unquestioning support from my Brother.  We all hope that we will receive unwaivering support from those who love us the most, from those that we rely on for advice in the early days of having a baby, but as I was reminded yesterday it's not always guaranteed.

I happened to be at a breastfeeding support group yesterday (where else would I be during World Breastfeeding Week!) and a lady walked in with a bunch of flowers.  How deeply honoured the recipient was to have been such an important person in that ladies life that she remembered her 12 months after having received help.

I don't think it's that family and friends or health professionals don't want to support the new mothers in their lives, I ust think that they have different agendas.  A midwife has to see a certain number of families every day and in the hospital has a large number of rooms to visit multiple times a day and they have a list to complete for each one, a long list.  When they visit at home they have another list of things to get through from child safety to weighing, to mums health to feeding.  A family might be looking at the bigger picture or might just see that mum is struggling and try to help in the only way they think that they can.

A breastfeeding peer supporter or a breastfeeding specialist at a support group has only one agenda.  That is the agenda of every single mother that walks through the door.  They have the time to listen, to empathise, to give each mum the time to really work out what they want and develop a plan together to move forward if that is what they want.  They don't have a checklist, they're not concerned with the immunization schedule or potty training, and they have the luxury of focussing on breastfeeding which is of course why that mum came in today.

They may not know it, but breastfeeding peer supporters and breastfeeding specialists make a huge difference to people's lives, both parents and children, and they are remembered for years to come.

Do you remember who helped you to breastfeed?


  Kent Baby Matters - is a website offering information about infant feeding services across Kent.  Just type in your postcode to find your nearest breastfeeding group, breastfeeding specialist or even where to find a pump.  Find up to date information about becoming a trained breastfeeding peer supporter and when training is happening in your area.
Gaining the confidence to nurse outside of your house might not come as easily to everyone and breastfeeding groups can be the perfect place.  See others breastfeeding, practice your technique and meet others in the same position who might fancy a coffee or a meet up at the local park.
Stay up to date with news about new breastfeeding groups, changes to groups and details about upcoming peer support training follow them on Facebook .
Here are some links to other bloggers and companies taking part in the Scavenger Hunt so that you keep hunting –
Jade from Mummies Waiting  want to join in because I love to help people and use my experiences to do that. I have been breastfeeding for over 2 years now and tandem feeding my 2 year old and 6 month old since birth. We have faced many difficulties, but none that we couldn't over come. I'm a breast feeding peer supporter and love to get people overcoming their issues.
My Moo and Woo is a family lifestyle blog written by a Midlands Mom of 2 girls. Blogging about extended breastfeeding, parenting, health and fitness and everything in between.

Adele Jarrett-Kerr is a writer, blogger and home educating mama to two girls, living in Bristol with her husband and their daughters who are four and one. She blogs about family life and positive parenting at Circus Queen
 Adventures of a Novice Mum is parenting and lifestyle blog from a first time mum who is praying and blogging her way through motherhood. This is where she documents her experiences and mu-m-sings from her mum tinted spectacles on a range of issues in her life. She also shares her love of photography and her blogging lessons, whilst encouraging positive and constructive conversations about breastfeeding.
Fitforparenting is a fitness enthusiast and Mum of 2 living in Cheshire, trying to be a fit parent not always successfully, ranting about breastfeeding, raising kids, depression and feminism with the odd glass of wine!
http://www.breastvest.co.uk/index.ASP
 
Breastvest - Have promised an essential breastvest duo (1x black and 1x white) in your size.

http://www.more4mums.co.uk/

More 4 Mums - Have promised a set of Hotmilk Lingerie

Helen McGonigal - Has promised a signed copy of Mummy Makes Milk






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Wednesday, 5 August 2015

Keep Britain Breastfeeding 2015 - Day 5 Round Up

Extended Breastfeeding

These are the posts from the Fifth day of the Keep Britain Breastfeeding 2015.  Each post will share a link to the next post so you can read them all.  Don't forget to enter the rafflecopters as you go.

Positive About Breastfeeding - Extended Breastfeeding..5 Things Not To Say To A Natural-Term Feeding Mama

Kohl Mama - A Journey Extended

Mum In A Nutshell - Still Breastfeeding?

Mush Brained Ramblings -  How Long Is Long Enough?

Diary of An Unexpectant Mother - When Are You Going To Stop Breastfeeding?

Sunshine Scribbles - Extended Breastfeeding

Milk Chic - Breastfeeding a Toddler

Fit For Parenting - Extended Breastfeeding...The Bond Past Baby

Musings From a Northern Village - Extended Breastfeeding

Mummies Waiting - Breastfeeding a Two Year Old.....and her baby, minnie, goofy and left foot

Monkey and Mouse Our Colourful Life - 5 Signs of a Breastfed Toddler

Adventures of A Novice Mum - You Are Not Still Breastfeeding!

Odd Socks and Lollipops - Extended Breastfeeding

Milk and Mummy - Extended Breastfeeding

Another Bun - Why I Fed Beyond 1 Year

My Thoughts on Things - Beyond Babyhood

Renegade Feminist - Extended Breastfeeding

Live Oxfordshire - Extended Breastfeeding.... or Just Breastfeeding?

My Moo and You - Extended Breastfeeding

Quite Frankly She Said - Extended Breastfeeding

Lycra Widow - Yes He's Still On The Boob

My Little L - Extended Breastfeeding






 


Tuesday, 4 August 2015

Keep Britain Breastfeeding 2015 - Day 4 Round Up

Breastfeeding and Work

These are the posts from the Fourth day of the Keep Britain Breastfeeding 2015.  Each post will share a link to the next post so you can read them all.  Don't forget to enter the rafflecopters as you go.

Fit For Parenting - Work and Breastfeeding

Musings From a Northern Village - Work and Breastfeeding

Mummies Waiting - Leaving My Baby For Work 

Adventures Of A Novice Mum - Breastfeeding AFter Maternity Leave: My Story & a Breastvest Competition

Odd Socks and Lollipops - Breastfeeding and Working

Quite Frankly She Said - Breastfeeding and Working

Milk and Mummy - Working and Breastfeeding

Positive About Breastfeeding - Working and Feeding

Breastfeeding In England - Top Tips for Breastfeeding and Returning to Work

Circus Queen - When It's Hard Getting Breastfeeding Started





Top Tips for Breastfeeding and Returning to Work

I've had my own share of experience with working and breastfeeding.  I've really only had positive experiences and I like to think that there is almost always a solution to a challenge.  I've read some accounts of not so great experiences today, but I think back to women I have worked with in the past who inspired me every day.  Women who worked at a petrol station overnight who couldn't leave their till, those who worked long shifts in retail for commission or those that worked in restaurants for tips who couldn't have someone else cover for them if they wanted to keep their tips.  In all of these cases we worked together to find solutions so that they could continue their breastfeeding relationship while working.

I had my first baby in the United States where leave is limited to 12 weeks unpaid.  I was lucky enough to have saved up enough leave so that I was paid during my leave and I started my time back as half days to ease me back in, but to be honest I enjoyed working and I was excited to get back.  I can't imagine taking 12 months off and then trying to get back on track with my job and career.  I also think it might have been easier for William to go to nursery at 12 weeks old as we never had any anxiety when I left him.  I was also able to visit most lunchtimes to feed, so we spent a bunch of time together and had mummy/baby picnics every day.

The theme for World Breastfeeding Week 2015 is Work and Breastfeeding.  Kent Baby Matters have put together some resources in this theme which will be displayed across Kent within Children's Centres.  I'll share some of their local top tips with you today, but please go across to the Kent Baby Matters website to see more resources which can be downloaded for free.  They've also linked to other websites if you want to find some resources to show your employer here.











This post is part of the Keep Britain Breastfeeding Scavenger Hunt 2015.  This year we are focusing on being #PositiveAboutBF and I invite you to start the conversation if you are pregnant or breastfeeding.  Learn about the many reasons there are to breastfeed for you, your baby and the planet and find out where to find your local support before you have your baby.
There are many posts to read all week long during World Breastfeeding Week 2015 and lots of competitions to enter for some fabulous prizes.  If you’d like to be in with a chance at winning over £700 worth of fabulous goodies from lots of breastfeeding friendly companies then please enter the rafflecopter below.  You’ll need to read at least 10 posts and enter all of the attached rafflecopters to be entered into the draw but that won’t be hard when we have so many amazing bloggers writing some amazing posts this year.
Wherever you see the Keep Britain Breastfeeding 2015 logo you will have the opportunity to enter so keep a lookout!
We are highlighting a couple of amazing organisations throughout the week because of the amazing work they are doing in the World of breastfeeding.

  Kent Baby Matters - is a website offering information about infant feeding services across Kent.  Just type in your postcode to find your nearest breastfeeding group, breastfeeding specialist or even where to find a pump.  Find up to date information about becoming a trained breastfeeding peer supporter and when training is happening in your area.
Gaining the confidence to nurse outside of your house might not come as easily to everyone and breastfeeding groups can be the perfect place.  See others breastfeeding, practice your technique and meet others in the same position who might fancy a coffee or a meet up at the local park.
Stay up to date with news about new breastfeeding groups, changes to groups and details about upcoming peer support training follow them on Facebook .
Here are some links to other bloggers and companies taking part in the Scavenger Hunt so that you keep hunting – 
 
Run Jump Scrap is a parenting blog which documents my musings as I bumble through mummihood frantically trying to get my fitness and scrapbooking hits where I can. I loved breastfeeding my daughter and want it to be seen in more of a positive light and not something to be feared or for people to feel guilty if they either succeed or struggle. 
Mum Without Wheels - a first time mum who exclusively babywears a cloth bum baby! I'm passionate about the "alternative" parenting choices I've made and aim to spread the knowledge and dispel myths!

Hibabyblog; the journey of a new mum living in Edinburgh blogging through the marvellous and mundane.

Renegade Feminist is a blog exploring feminist issues through a gentle parenting lens and vice versa, when not diverting into politics, or homeschooling or something else entirely.
Monkey and Mouse is the parenting and lifestyle blog of a Scottish mummy of 2 living amongst the hills, writing about their family adventures, kids crafts, baking and attachment parenting.

Burble Baby - Have promised a £20 gift voucher


http://thrupennybits.co.uk/breastfeeding-cover-covers/pink-flock-nursing-cover

Thrupenny Bits - Have promised a Cute Cord in Blue Breastfeeding Pillow
 
Cherub Chews - Have promised a Beautiful Crochet & Wooden Bead Nursing Necklace with Reminder Bracelet 
 





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Monday, 3 August 2015

Keep Britain Breastfeeding 2015 - Day 3 Round-up


How To Dress To Impress!

These are the posts from the first day of the Keep Britain Breastfeeding 2015.  Each post will share a link to the next post so you can read them all.  Don't forget to enter the rafflecopters as you go.

Life With Baby Kicks - Breastfeeding Fashion Tips from a Rubbish Fashionista

Mum Without Wheels - How To Dress To Impress

Can I Breastfeeding In It? - How Do You Breastfeeding In It?

Another Bun - Dress To Impress

Adventures of A Novice Mum - What to Wear to Breastfeed

Milk Chic - What To Wear When You Are Breastfeeding

Family Fever - Dress to Impress

Odd Socks and Lollipops - What To Wear?

Lycra Widow - Mama Fashionista

Milk and Mummy - Breastfeeding in Style

Fit For Parenting - How to Dress to Impress

Musings From A Northern Village - Day 3 Dress To Impress

Mummies Waiting - Just Breastfeed Naked and Be Done With It I HATE SHOPPING!

My Thoughts on Things - Looking Good

Positive About Breastfeeding - Dress To Impress

Unique and Chic - Wardrobe Essentials for the Breastfeeding Mum

Mum In A Nutshell - A Must Have Breastfeeding Accessory...The Breastvest (Win a Breastvest nursing vest)

Competitions and Discount Codes

Win a Breastvest nursing vest with Mum in A Nutshell